
There’s something that’s so completely satisfying about watching an entire series from beginning to end. For shows that run long enough, it’s easy enough to miss an episode here or there and sometimes, if they’re filler episodes, it doesn’t matter as much. With Gavin & Stacey, I watched every episode from the most charming pilot I’ve ever seen to the Christmas Special and the series finale that made me laugh as much as it made me cry.
I’ve always been an Anglophile. Give me some people with varying degrees of UK accents and I’m totally hooked. There’s something about the way their series pan out that captivates me, whether it’s with period pieces or modern takes on escapist drama. From start to finish, Gavin & Stacey is a charming amalgam of romance and realism; charming to the point of teeth-aching sweetness, sometimes, but always filled with enough good humor and comedy to sell the unwavering point: you’re rooting for Gavin and Stacey to work out.
There are TV shows, and then there are TV shows, things put on the air specifically so that they’ll elicit a response; political, emotional, draining — they exist in order to make you think. It would be really easy to group Gavin & Stacey into a fluffy category, as something less. It’s about a pair of people who meet over the phone, fall in love, get married and eventually, try and start a family. That might not seem like much of a moving premise. It’s been done a hundred times, the concept of shows centered around home and the family, namely with American hits like Brothers & Sisters and the aptly titled Modern Family. It’s not new, but it’s interesting. Procedurals are still going strong, and they will be as long as Law & Order is around (considering it’s been renewed for its 21st season, it doesn’t look like it’ll be going away any time soon), but there’s also a brand new focus: Family. Togetherness. Love. Those are the big sellers nowadays, that sentimentality accepted as long as it’s funny.
What I mean to say is this: the era of Married with Children, it’s not.
Gavin & Stacey strikes the odd balance of pushing the line too far and making you believe that these people are actually in love. On a lesser show, with worse writing and a cast that didn’t feature exemplary actors each week, there’d be a whiff of parody in the air. Parody is what we turn too when things get too mushy, when we’re embarrassed, and from James Corden, who together with Mat Horne (the ever-earnest Gavin) wrote and starred in the gem Lesbian Vampire Killers, parody is probably what would be expected. The sum of the parts shouldn’t have been a heart-warming testament to how true love can be, but that’s what managed to happen anyway. Not that there aren’t an excess amount of tongue-in-cheek moments, up to and including: incestuous overtones between an uncle and nephew (both, of course, over the legal age of consent), parental squabbling and healthy dose of British and Welsh idiosyncrasies, but those just manage to root the whole thing into reality.
They say that watching television is more about escapism than it is about anything else, and maybe that’s true. I’d love to take a mini-break into the charming world of Barry Island, Wales.